Hovering parents hinder highschoolers
‘Helicopter parents’ could actually be hindering their child’s development by becoming too heavily involved, a new study says.
A recent Australian study involving 866 parents from a number of public, private and independent schools found those who endorse over-parenting beliefs tend to take more responsibility for their child doing their homework, and also expect their child’s teachers to take more responsibility for it.
“There is concern this greater parental involvement in ensuring homework is completed, particularly in high school, may be impacting the child’s ability to take responsibility for their homework or understand the consequences of their actions,” said QUT Clinical Psychologist Dr Judith Locke.
“The irony is a helicopter parenting style with the goal of fostering academic achievement could be undermining the development of independent and resilient performance in their children.
“Parental involvement in a child’s school experience is considered an important factor in their academic success and homework is a key aspect of that.
“However, it seems some parents may take the notion too far and continue to assist children at an age the child should be taking most of the responsibility for their academic work, such as the senior school years.
“Parental assistance with homework should slowly reduce as a child gets older and daily parental involvement in an adolescent’s homework would be developmentally inappropriate.”
“These parents appear to not only help their child more, they also expect their child’s teachers to help them more, particularly in the middle school and senior school years.
“There may be a point where high levels of parental assistance ceases to be beneficial, especially as children reach adolescence and young adulthood, and can result in poor resilience, entitlement and reduced sense of responsibility.”
The full study is accessible here.